So today was a game changer. I made a decision, actually it was made for me but I decided my fate today. It was tough. I talked it over with my dad. With my roomie. With my mentor. And to celebrate the new chapter the roomie cooked me dinner. And got me flowers to sooth it over. I got the shrimp and cocktail sauce. She cooked a salmon with Chalmers family secret marinade. To go along with it was quinoa (which Siri says really funny) topped with roasted tomatoes. Also a salad of romaine and spinach with cucumbers, sun dried tomatoes and goat cheese. It was all fantastic and tasty. But more than anything it was pretty so I had to take a picture.
So I have thought about this for a while. Do I actually write this post? Do I put my dirty laundry out there for everyone? Or the handful that read my blog. And if I do, what do I say? Do I slam those involved? Do I take the high road? When is a “good” time to put it out there? A few days under my belt and there is probably no better time. So no secret, my ex-boyfriend was my coach. That worked out mildly well while we were together but add a breakup and somehow it just doesn’t work out as smoothly. Add a few of the worst things a person could do to another in there and disaster doesn’t even begin to describe. But I have this eternal belief that I can make any situation work. That I can fix things. It’s what makes me good at my job. I’m an eternal optimist. But it’s what causes me to not be so good at my personal life. Even when things are clearly not good, I still think I can fix it and make it right...
New chapter, new opportunites. Congrats on a rebirth.
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